Overheard from Barbara Simpson- THD Executive Director during the Game; This is the first time, I see Seniors acting like 20-year old kids.
David B.Katague, B.S., M.S., M.A, Ph.D. Sunset Photo from the Balcony of the Chateau Du Mer Beach House, Boac,Marinduque,Philippines
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Wednesday, July 31, 2024
Chair Volley Ball Tournament - Fairmont Fighters Victory
Overheard from Barbara Simpson- THD Executive Director during the Game; This is the first time, I see Seniors acting like 20-year old kids.
Tuesday, July 30, 2024
Unfit: The Psychology of Donald Trump Documentary
https://www.primevideo.com/detail/Unfit-The-Psychology-of-Donald-Trump/0F75U4UJDOC19DPYZHN5FE64KQ
Meanwhile, here's the highlights of THD Events for July 29 to August 4. The Sound Bath scheduled for Saturday, August 3 at 3PM, I highly recommend. For the Benefits of Sound-Bathing read my article on this subject at bottom of the page.💚
💚https://chateaudumer.blogspot.com/2024/06/sound-bathing-in-yoga-and-its-benefits.htmlMonday, July 29, 2024
Eighteen Interesting Facts About Paris -XXXIII Olympiad
Sunday, July 28, 2024
A Timely Notice for THD Pet Owners
The above reminder addressed to the THD Pet owners was very timely. The day before I received this notice as a cat owner, I was almost a victim ( that is step-on a dog poo ) of an irresponsible dog owner who did not pick her/his dog poo on the Court- yard lawn of THD . I was on my way from the Fairmount Building to Newton's via the Library. I did not report this incident to the Front Desk because I was able to avoid the poo and I was not sure whose job is it to solve this problem.
However, this same incident happened to me last year. At that time, I reported it to Liza Bellini- our Resident Liaison at that time. Lisa immediately took a dog poo plastic scooper and she told me to show it to her. I did and Lisa immediately took care of the problem. Then the above same reminder was posted.
So, there is a dog owner here at THD who for some reasons or another appear irresponsible. I hope you will not repeat this incident and Pick up your dog S--t.
Speaking of Pets, I have just finished reading an article from yesterday's issue from the East Bay Times on " Fight Loneliness with Furry Friends.
Here are excerpts from the article: Pets Provide not only psychological but also physical benefits for Older Adults.
"San Mateo County which declared loneliness a public health emergency earlier this year, has been running a campaign to address social isolation and loneliness. That included a Recent Peninsula Humane Society event promoting pet adoption and therapy animals. Recently, the county approved $1 Million in funding to implement anti-loneliness program. Pet companionship alleviates stress, improving heart rate and blood pressure and encouraging physical activity. Cognitive Decline among the aging is slower among pet owners than non-owners".
I am not a dog owner, so picking up dog poo's on public areas here at THD is not my problem. I am a 2-cats resident owner of Batman and Robin. I do indeed change their cat litter diligently for my own sake and have no effect on other senior residents here at THD. Here's Batman and Robin on their favorite spot on my patio.
From Left to Right: Robin (more white on his face) and Batman. They are both neutered males, American Short Hair Breed. Both are only 2 years old. Notice the wire netting preventing them from gallivanting outside. They love watching the squirrels and occasional humming birds in the vicinity.
Again, Be a Responsible Pet Owner and Do Not forget to clean-up your Dog S---t.
Bridge as Un ( Serious) Leisure Activity
Bridge as an (Un)serious Leisure Activity
How Playing Bridge can Improve Well-being
This was going to be a column on the cognitive challenges that bridge offers as it's an important topic and many of us enjoy the mental training that comes about from learning and problem solving. I had already started to write it when a friend of mine died. Well, he was not a close friend, but a player I knew from the bridge table. His name was Nikica Staničić. One day he was there, the next he was gone, so it came as a shock to the Croatian bridge community. Our federation is small, with fewer than a thousand members, so those who have been playing for several years get to know almost everyone. And everyone liked and respected Nikica as he was such an unassuming, modest, sweet gentleman.
Nikica took beginners' bridge lessons when he was already approaching his senior years. Together with his wife Anica, he regularly played in Zagreb bridge clubs and visited tournaments in the neighborhood. They were together for a lifetime, living an ordinary, happy life, as those who manage to unite with their soulmates do. They always played together. Anica was much more of a talent and was not exactly reluctant to point that out.
Nikica, on the other hand, couldn’t care less for the intellectual challenge of bridge. He was not upset about bad boards, he was never ashamed of himself for making a ridiculous bid or play, and, thinking back, I don’t remember him being particularly happy when he himself would score a top. Competitiveness was not in his vocabulary. I doubt he knew that there was a ranking list of players, let alone ever checked his position.
You may remember, in my June column, I was contemplating bridge as a serious leisure activity. Well, for Nikica there was nothing serious about the game, but he thrived just from being there.
Let me explain. In their regular discussions that tended towards monologues, Anica was right more often than not, but no matter what happened, he would never utter a word or frown. I believe he was secretly so proud of her and her fighting, unforgiving spirit that he genuinely enjoyed every moment. And she knew that. She was performing for him in this imaginary life at the table. Instead of getting upset or defensive, he stayed completely calm with a mysterious smile floating in the corner of his lips. Bridge was a theater, and he was perfectly satisfied playing a supporting role. While his ambitions in bridge were close to zero, that didn’t interfere at all with his ability to take pleasure from it. On the contrary, it maybe even helped since he was not struggling with feelings of incompetence and disappointment as many do. He was just sitting there with an aura of calmness, greeting every opponent in a kind and respectful manner, waiting for the unfolding plot of another board. He enjoyed the atmosphere, cherished his wife, and was so amused with all of us fighting over a deck of cards. No matter the score, he always left the tournament happy and fulfilled.
Though he was not talkative, during the last decade I witnessed enough of his well-placed, sharp, witted observations to consider him a highly intelligent person. I am sure he could have learned bridge to a much higher level if he had given it a try. But he was perfectly satisfied with his beginners' skills and fascinated by the picturesque and dynamic bridge scenery he was a part of. And that's how bridge enriched his senior years, and how he, together with Anica, enriched bridge in Croatia.
I remember one particular club tournament when I approached them during the break. We were chatting a little about unimportant daily issues when Anica blurted out that their opponents had just bid and made three slams in a row, a single round. I hadn’t played those boards yet, so obviously they had to be canceled, and I lost the opportunity to play the slammish round. I was kind of upset, but seeing them giggling about their unintentional prank was worth missing those boards.
I can still see them standing on a cold winter night, shivering in front of the club, wrapped only in long-lasting affection, sharing a cigarette as if they were teenagers. They were carefully planning their bridge excursions, sometimes sacrificing other small indulgences to make ends meet. They rarely missed a tournament in the neighborhood, even if it meant waking up early and driving a few hours in their old car, sipping an espresso to beat the tiredness. Even in their own hard times, they were the most loyal participants in any charity tournament and gave their best to support the bridge community.
Nikica played his last tournament with his wife a few days before he died. On his final board, he scored 100%. While I was relieved to discover that, I am sure he wouldn’t have minded if it was a zero.
He was one of the most devoted followers of the Croatian Bridge Federation Facebook, cheering passionately for our teams at whichever event they attended. He liked my Facebook post regarding Croatian teams at the European Championships a day before he passed. As I am writing this, his name is still on the list of the pairs who registered for the “Club Birthday Tournament” and I don’t have the strength to remove him and Anica from the list. He is so much still here. I don’t know what happened, but I am sure Heaven is a more peaceful place now.
I often see club players arguing - after all, that is an integral part of bridge that many enjoy. However, Nikica taught me that bridge can be an important, fulfilling part of our lives even if we do not take it seriously, even if we put no effort into improving or comparing ourselves with others. By focusing fully on cards and immersing in the game, we may overlook some of its additional benefits, those that Nikica was a true expert of.
Do you know players like Nikica, or maybe, are you yourself one of them? Do we need more Nikicas in bridge to make it less stressful and more comfortable for all?
This column is dedicated to Mr. and Mrs. Staničić, as through the years they made Croatian bridge a better, more human place.
About the Author
Tihana Brkljačić is a psychologist and a bridge player. She teaches psychology and bridge at Zagreb university. She represented Croatia at multiple European championships and at The World Championship (Wuhan cup) in 2022. As a psychologist, her main areas of interest are in quality of life, well-being and communication. Additionally, she studies the psychology of games (focusing on bridge in particular) and consults players on various topics.
Happy Bridge Playing Everyone- See You all Tomorrow, Monday. July 29. 12:30PM. Bring your dollar and come 2-3 minutes early if you can, David. your THD Monday Bridge Coordinator
Saturday, July 27, 2024
Newton's Restaurant Noise and Its Health Effects
The other day, I was reading an article ( see article at bottom of the Page) on the health effects of loud and excessive Restaurant Noise from the Washington Post💚. It reminded me of our own restaurant- the Newtons here at THD.
For the last year since I moved here at THD, I heard numerous complaints both from old and new residents that noise level at Newton's at Dinner Time is so loud we could barely hear each other. There has been numerous suggestion from residents how to improve the acoustic as well as the cooling system( arctic mode) of Newtons. But as of today, I do not foresee a solution to the problem.
Today, with more new residents checking in ( July and August months) the dining room is always full to capacity at dinner time. I estimated that the total THD residents should be around 115-120. The capacity of Newtons restaurant is well below 100. Luckily a few residents prefer to eat in their apartments, but at Dinner Time Newton's inside is filled to capacity and the noise level is bad. A few residents have hearing problems, so they choose to eat alone in the corner tables.
When the weather is nice and not too hot, about a dozen residents avail themselves with outdoor dining( 2-tables for 4, and 1 table for 3) with no noise problem hearing dining conversations. However, in order to get these outdoor seats, one must be there by 4:45PM if not earlier. You can not reserved the seats unless you have an outside guest.
Inside The Newton's Restaurant at Dinner Time- Filled to Full Capacity-Out Door Tables Available during Summer Months and Good WeatherHere's the summary of the article on restaurant noise and its bad health effects to both Patrons and Staff.
Experts are advocating for standards that would not only alleviate customer complaints, but also protect the health of patrons and staff members. And with the number of people dining out slightly declining after a pandemic rebound, restaurateurs should have more motivation to try new technologies and materials to suppress noise and lure more diners to their tables. For details visit:
Friday, July 26, 2024
The Coconut Trees of the Philippines-Kamala Harris Coconut Tree Meme
The coconut tree provides food, fuel, cosmetics, folk medicine and building materials, among many other uses. The inner flesh of the mature seed, as well as the coconut milk extracted from it, form a regular part of the diets of many people in the tropics and subtropics. Coconuts are distinct from other fruits because their endospermcontains a large quantity of clear liquid, called "coconut water" or "coconut juice". Mature, ripe coconuts can be used as edible seeds, or processed for oil and plant milk from the flesh, charcoal from the hard shell, and coirfrom the fibrous husk.
Dried coconut flesh is called copra, and the oil and milk derived from it are commonly used in cooking – frying in particular – as well as in soaps and cosmetics. Sweet coconut sap can be made into drinks or fermented into palm wine or coconut vinegar. The hard shells, fibrous husks and long pinnate leaves can be used as material to make a variety of products for furnishing and decoration.
The Standard Coconut tree is tall and only experienced Climbers Can Harvest the Nuts or sometimes they used a long bamboo poles with sharp knives attached to it to slash the nuts at the top of the tree. Do you see any Face in the Photo? I do!
Meanwhile here's a video of Kamala Harris coconut tree-meme that has the Internet World on Fire.
https://www.msnbc.com/top-stories/latest/kamala-harris-coconut-tree-meme-rcna163177
Thursday, July 25, 2024
A Thing of Beauty is A Joy Forever
1. "To have attractive lips, say kind words.
2. To have beautiful eyes, look at what people have beautiful in them.
3. To stay thin, share the meal with those who are hungry.
4. To have beautiful hair, let a child run his hand through your hair every day.
5. To have a good expectation, to go knowing that you are never alone, but together with those who love you and have loved you. People, even more than objects, must be repaired, pampered, revived, reclaimed and saved: never reject anyone. Think about it:
5. If you ever need a helping hand, you'll find one at the end of every arm. As you grow older, you will realize that you have two hands, one to help yourself, the other to help those who need it.
6. A woman's beauty is not in the clothes she wears, her face or the way she does her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because they are the open door to her heart, the source of her love. The beauty of a woman is not in her makeup, but in the true beauty of her soul. It is the tenderness it gives, the love, the passion it expresses. A woman's beauty develops with the years."
She was born on May 4, 1929 (d. 1993)" Source: Gabriela Manescu
- Everything has beauty, but not everyone sees it. ...
- The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mode but the true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. ...
- Never lose an opportunity of seeing anything beautiful, for beauty is God's handwriting. ..
- Beauty is power; a smile is its sword.
Lastly, I attended, Jeff's Wessman 2nd Lecture on Awakening Joy for Seniors last night. It was great but what stuck in my mind is the Serenity Prayer that I am reposting for you today.
God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and wisdom to know the difference.
When Jeff asked the audience of things we do that gave us joy, I blurted Writing Daily via my blogs. I was not surprised that Making a journal was listed as one of the things one can do to give us joy in the Moment!
Wednesday, July 24, 2024
Artificial Intelligence and the Bridge Game
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