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If this is your first visit, welcome! This site is devoted to my life experiences as a Filipino-American who immigrated from the Philippines to the United States in 1960. I came to the US as a graduate student when I was 26 years old. I am now in my mid-80's and thanks God for his blessings, I have four successful and professional children and six grandchildren here in the US. My wife and I had been enjoying the snow bird lifestyle between US and Philippines after my retirement from USFDA in 2002. Macrine(RIP),Me and my oldest son are the Intellectual migrants. Were were born in the Philippines, came to the US in 1960 and later became US citizens in 1972. Some of the photos and videos in this site, I do not own. However, I have no intention on infringing on your copyrights. Cheers!

Friday, February 6, 2026

Why Egyptians Worshipped Cats- My Batman and Robin

From My Readings About Cats: The domestic cat is one of the most biologically perfect creatures on Earth.
THAT’S WHY THE EGYPTIANS WORSHIPED THEM!!
It might sound exaggerated, but it’s not. Science has revealed something incredible: the domestic cat is one of the most biologically perfect creatures on Earth.
Their design borders on genius. A spine so flexible it can twist 180° mid-jump. Lightning-fast neuromuscullar reflexes. Night vision six times stronger than ours. And hearing so sharp it picks up frequencies that escape most mammals. Even their heart beats with the rhythm of an elite athlete and their brain shares more similarities with ours than almost any other domestic animal.
But the cat’s perfection goes beyond biology. Its behavior blends independence, precision, and empathy. Cats know exactly when to approach, when to observe, and when to vanish. They are silent hunters, yet emotionally attuned companions, balancing instinct and intuition with almost mathematical grace.
For biologists, the cat represents the pinnacle of evolutionary balance, strength, agility, and sensitivity wrapped in one extraordinary creature.

In addition:


My Two Pet Cats-Batman and Robin- Enjoying Sunshine in their Catio(THD)

My Food For Thought for Today:

The Golden Rules of Life:


The top Five News of the Day:

  • Iran & U.S. hold indirect talks in Oman — High-stakes discussions aimed at reducing Middle East tensions are underway after recent military actions by both sides, with U.S. and Iranian representatives negotiating through intermediaries in Oman. 

  • Trump requests U.S. landmarks named after him in budget deal — President Trump reportedly has asked that Penn Station in NYC and Dulles Airport in Virginia be renamed after him as part of negotiations to advance federal funding. 

  • Major Ukraine–Russia developments amid ongoing conflict — Kyiv and Moscow completed a significant prisoner exchange during peace talks, indicating the most meaningful diplomatic progress in months in the war. 

  • Olympic drama: Lindsey Vonn to compete despite ACL injury — Skiing legend Lindsey Vonn, 41, is expected to race for Team USA at the 2026 Milano-Cortina Winter Olympics despite recently rupturing her ACL, inspiring global sports headlines. 

  • Wall Street & global markets react to tech sell-offs — Stock markets and bitcoin swung sharply today, with tech losses initially dragging markets before a partial recovery; crypto saw wild price moves as investor sentiment shifted. 


  • Thursday, February 5, 2026

    The Barong Tagalog- Filipino Identity - DNA


    In the sweltering heat of colonial Manila, under the watchful eyes of Spanish friars and officials, a simple garment became a badge of subjugation and, quietly, a banner of defiance.
    The barong tagalog, with its sheer piña and jusi fabric, was no accident of fashion. From the 16th to the 19th century, colonial decrees required Filipino men, Indios, to wear this transparent, untucked, pocketless shirt. Spanish elites dressed in thick European coats that could hide weapons or valuables. Filipinos could not. Their clothing was meant to make them visibly “harmless,” humble, and controlled.
    But history has a way of rewriting meaning.
    In 1892, José Rizal stepped into intellectual salons wearing his barong not with shame, but with pride turning a garment of submission into quiet resistance. By the 1896 Revolution, Andres Bonifacio and the Katipuneros charged into battle in barongs billowing in the wind. What was once a mark of inferiority became a declaration:
    We are men of honor. We are equal. We are free.
    After independence in 1946, the barong rose again no longer forced, but chosen. Presidents were sworn in wearing it. Grooms married in it. Diplomats carried it to global stages. From the looms of Ilocos to the fibers of Aklan, its embroidery began telling a new story, one of resilience, dignity, and identity reclaimed.
    The barong was never just clothing. It is living proof that Filipinos turned imposed shame into cultural pride and that true identity cannot be legislated away.
    A Space-Age Barong- Would I like to Get One? No...

    Meanwhile, 
    Did you know that there is no such thing as a "pure" Filipino DNA?
    Genetic studies reveal that the Philippines is home to one of the world's most ethnically diverse populations, with most individuals carrying a complex blend of Austronesian, East Asian, and Melanesian heritage.
    Extensive research, including a massive study of 115 cultural groups, shows that while the population is predominantly East/Southeast Asian (~94%), many Filipinos also carry significant traces of South Asian, Southern European, and even Native American genetic markers from centuries of global trade and migration.
    This unique "genetic crossroads" means that almost every Filipino is a product of thousands of years of mixing, reflecting a truly global heritage within a single archipelago.

    Finally, Fish Extinct for 70 Million Years

    Imagine seeing a creature thought lost to time for 70 million years swimming right before your eyes. Scientists have just captured photographs of a fish long believed extinct, a true living relic from the prehistoric oceans. This astonishing discovery challenges our assumptions about extinction and reveals how some species can survive in hidden corners of the world, untouched by human eyes for millions of years.
    This extraordinary fish belongs to a lineage that coexisted with the dinosaurs, surviving massive extinction events that wiped out countless species. Its survival highlights the resilience of life and the mysteries that still linger in remote rivers, lakes, and oceans. Paleontologists are thrilled because such discoveries allow us to study traits and behaviours that have remained virtually unchanged for tens of millions of years, offering a direct connection to Earth’s distant past.
    Finding a living fossil like this also provides crucial insight into evolution and adaptation. Scientists can compare its physiology, DNA, and behaviour with fossil relatives to understand how some species manage to endure while others vanish. These creatures remind us that life is full of surprises and that even the most ancient lineages can persist in ways we never imagined.
    Strange fact for this post this fish likely has a very slow metabolism and can survive in low-oxygen environments, traits that may have allowed it to persist for millions of years while other species perished.
    "Meet the living fossil that survived 70 million years! 🐟✨ Click to uncover the secrets of this ancient fish’s survival!

    My Photo of the Day: Batman. 1-30-26

    The Man Who Saved the World in1962

    From My History Readings This Week 
    His name was Vasili Arkhipov. And on October 27, 1962, he made the most important decision in human history. Most people have never heard of him. He never sought fame. He lived quietly, died quietly, and for forty years, the world had no idea that a single word he spoke, "no", prevented World War III. This is the story of the day one man saved eight billion lives.

    October 1962. The Cuban Missile Crisis. 

    For thirteen days, the United States and Soviet Union stood at the brink of nuclear annihilation. Soviet Premier Nikita Khrushchev had secretly placed nuclear missiles in Cuba, ninety miles from Florida. President Kennedy ordered a naval blockade. The world held its breath.

    But while diplomats negotiated in Washington and Moscow, the real danger wasn't happening in conference rooms. It was happening in the dark, crushing depths of the Caribbean Sea, aboard a Soviet submarine called B-59. Four Soviet Foxtrot-class submarines had been sent secretly to Cuba in early October. Each carried twenty-two torpedoes. And each had one special weapon: a nuclear-tipped torpedo with the explosive power of the Hiroshima bomb.

    B-59 was commanded by Captain Valentin Savitsky. Aboard as flotilla commander and second-in-command was Vasili Arkhipov, a quiet, methodical officer who'd survived something most men don't survive.

    Sixteen months earlier, Arkhipov had been executive officer on the submarine K-19 when its nuclear reactor cooling system failed. With no way to contact Moscow, the crew faced a choice: let the reactor melt down, or jury-rig a backup cooling system while exposed to lethal radiation.

    Seven engineers and their officer volunteered. They worked in the reactor compartment knowing they were dying with every second. They saved the ship. And they died within a month from radiation poisoning. Fifteen more crew members died over the next two years. Arkhipov was exposed too. The radiation was already in his body, a slow death sentence that would take thirty-seven years to kill him.
    But in October 1962, he was alive. And he was about to save everyone else.

    On October 22, Kennedy announced the blockade. By October 25, U.S. Navy anti-submarine forces had detected all four Soviet submarines. They began hunting them relentlessly using a tactic called "hunt to exhaustion", the same method used against German U-boats in World War II. For B-59, it became hell.

    The submarine couldn't surface to charge batteries or run air conditioning. They stayed deep, hiding, suffocating. Inside the steel tube, temperatures climbed above 50 degrees Celsius-122 degrees Fahrenheit. In some compartments, it reached 60°C (140°F).

    Sailors collapsed from heatstroke. The air turned thick with carbon dioxide. Breathing became painful. Men fainted. The three diesel engines and batteries produced so much heat the submarine became an underwater oven.
    They had no contact with Moscow. Radio signals couldn't penetrate the depths they were hiding at. They didn't know what was happening above. They didn't know if war had already started.

    For days, they endured this. Exhausted. Dehydrated. Suffocating. Isolated.
    Then, on October 27, the most dangerous day of the entire Cold War,, eleven U.S. destroyers and the aircraft carrier USS Randolph found them. The Americans began dropping depth charges. Practice depth charges signaling explosives meant to force submarines to surface for identification. 

    The U.S. Navy had sent a message explaining this procedure. B-59 never received it. Inside the submarine, the explosions were deafening. The hull shook violently. Metal screamed. Men thought they were dying.

    "They exploded right next to the hull," recalled intelligence officer Vadim Orlov, who was aboard. "It felt like you were sitting on a metal barrel, which somebody is constantly blasting with a sledgehammer."

    Captain Savitsky believed war had started. They were under attack. Russia was probably being bombed. This was it. He made his decision. "We're going to blast them now!" he shouted. "We will die, but we will sink them all! We will not disgrace our Navy!"

    He ordered the nuclear torpedo armed and readied for launch. If that torpedo had been fired, it would have destroyed multiple American ships. The United States would have immediately assumed World War III had begun. Soviet cities would have been hit with nuclear weapons. American cities would have been destroyed in retaliation. Every major population center in both countries, gone. Billions dead in hours. Nuclear winter. The end of civilization.

    But Soviet protocol required three officers to authorize a nuclear launch: the captain, the political officer, and the flotilla commander. Captain Savitsky said yes. Load the torpedo. Fire. Political Officer Ivan Maslennikov said yes. We're at war. Destroy them.

    Everyone looked at the third officer. Vasili Arkhipov. The submarine was an oven. Carbon dioxide poisoning was making people delirious. They'd been hunted for days. Explosions rocked the hull. Death seemed certain. Every logical indicator said: war has started. Fire before we die. Arkhipov said no.

    "This is not war," he said calmly. "These are signals. Practice depth charges. If war had started, they would have used real weapons by now."

    Savitsky argued. Shouted. The torpedo was armed. The Americans were right above them. This was their moment. Arkhipov refused to budge. "We need to surface. We need to make contact with Moscow. We don't fire without orders."

    They argued for minutes that felt like hours. In that steel coffin, with bombs exploding overhead, with men fainting from heat, with everyone believing death was seconds away, Arkhipov held firm.

    He wasn't being brave. He wasn't grandstanding. He was being rational.
    He'd faced nuclear disaster before, on K-19. He'd watched men die from split-second panic decisions. He'd learned that in the worst moments, calm thinking saves lives.

    And he had authority. As flotilla commander, he outranked both men in the chain of command. His vote counted. Finally, Savitsky relented. B-59 began its ascent.
    They surfaced into a nightmare. Searchlights blinded them. Eleven American warships surrounded them. Helicopters buzzed overhead. USS Randolph loomed like a mountain.

    But the Americans didn't fire. They signaled: identify yourself. The Soviets flew their flag. Requested the Americans stop "provocative actions." After a tense standoff, B-59 was allowed to withdraw. They sailed back to the Soviet Union in disgrace, many Soviet leaders were furious they'd revealed their position.

    But they were alive. The Americans were alive. The world was alive. No one on the American side knew B-59 carried nuclear weapons. No one knew how close they'd come. The U.S. Navy thought they were just forcing a conventional submarine to surface.

    October 28, Kennedy and Khrushchev reached an agreement. The missiles in Cuba would be removed. The crisis ended.

    But it had nearly ended very differently. In the dark, underwater, three men almost started World War III and one man stopped them. For forty years, no one knew.
    Arkhipov continued serving in the Soviet Navy. He was promoted to rear admiral in 1975, became head of the Kirov Naval Academy, was promoted to vice admiral in 1981, and retired in the mid-1980s.

    He settled in Zheleznodorozhny, a small town outside Moscow. He lived with his wife Olga and their daughter Yelena. He never told them what he'd done. It was classified. Secret. "He would always say, 'I can't tell you now, but one day you will know,'" his grandson later recalled.

    On August 19, 1998, Vasili Arkhipov died of kidney cancer at age seventy-two. The radiation from K-19, the exposure he'd sustained saving his first submarine from meltdown had finally killed him.

    He died quietly. A few mourners attended his funeral. The world didn't notice.
    Four years later, in 2002, at a conference marking the 40th anniversary of the Cuban Missile Crisis, retired Commander Vadim Orlov revealed the truth: B-59 had carried nuclear weapons. Arkhipov had prevented their use.

    Thomas Blanton, director of the U.S. National Security Archive, said: "A guy called Vasili Arkhipov saved the world."

    Suddenly, the world understood. That quiet Soviet officer who'd died four years earlier had made the most consequential decision in human history.

    In 2017, nineteen years after his death, the Future of Life Institute presented its inaugural Future of Life Award to Arkhipov's family. The award recognizes "exceptional measures, often performed despite personal risk and without obvious reward, to safeguard the collective future of humanity." Think about what that means.

    Every person reading this exists because Vasili Arkhipov said no. Every child born since 1962. Every city that wasn't vaporized. Every book written, every song composed, every discovery made, every moment of love and laughter and human connection in the last sixty-three years.

    All of it depends on one word spoken by one man in an underwater steel tube while bombs exploded overhead and everyone around him was screaming to fire.
    One "no."

    That's the power of moral courage. That's what happens when someone refuses to follow the crowd even when the crowd is certain they're right. Arkhipov's story teaches something profound about leadership, about courage, about thinking clearly when chaos demands panic.

    He wasn't superhuman. He was scared too. He just didn't let fear override reason.
    He'd seen disaster before, on K-19, where panic could have meant meltdown, where discipline and cold calculation saved lives. He applied those lessons when it mattered most.

    In a world that often celebrates aggression as strength, Arkhipov showed that sometimes the strongest thing you can do is refuse. Say no. Hold the line. Think when everyone else has stopped thinking.

    His story matters today because we still live in a world with thousands of nuclear weapons. We still have moments when fear and misunderstanding could spiral into catastrophe. We still need people who can say "wait" when everyone else is saying "now."

    Vasili Arkhipov never wanted to be a hero. He was a submarine officer doing his job. But history gave him a choice that no one should ever have to make, and he made it correctly. He chose life over death. Reason over rage. The future over oblivion.
    He saved eight billion lives with one word. And most of us will never know his name.

    But now you do. Now you know that on October 27, 1962, in the heat and darkness of a submarine off Cuba, one man stood alone and prevented the end of the world.
    The next time someone tells you that one person can't make a difference, remember Vasili Arkhipov. Remember the man who said no when two others said yes. Remember the man who saved the world.

    Finally, here's the top Five News of the Day:
    1️⃣ U.S. & Russia Move to Extend Nuclear Arms Control After Treaty Expiration

    Leaders from the U.S. and Russia are close to agreeing to continue observing the New START nuclear arms control treaty despite its official expiration, following talks in Abu Dhabi. Final approval from the presidents is still pending. 

    2️⃣ Search Continues for Savannah Guthrie’s Missing Mother

    Search efforts for Today show host Savannah Guthrie’s 84-year-old mother, Nancy Guthrie, enter the fifth day. Family and authorities are urging the public for tips and information. 

    3️⃣ Democrats Outline 10 Demands Targeting ICE Funding Policies

    Senate Democratic leaders released a letter with 10 policy demands in an effort to reshape federal immigration enforcement and oversight of ICE. 

    4️⃣ Trump Administration Reportedly Eases Firing Rules for Senior Federal Workers

    Wall Street Journal report states the Trump administration is preparing new policies to make it easier to remove senior civil servants — a significant shift in federal personnel rules. 

    5️⃣ Major Wall Street Law Firm Chair Resigns After Epstein-Related Emails Leak

    The chairman of Paul Weiss law firm resigned after emails showing social ties to Jeffrey Epstein were released, sparking controversy and scrutiny. 


    Wednesday, February 4, 2026

    Jack Kennedy and Lem Billings-Extraordinary Friendship

    From My Book Readings This Week:

    The Man Who Had a Room in the Kennedy White House  And Why the Story Still Matters💚💚

    Every few years, an old black-and-white photograph resurfaces online, usually accompanied by a breathless caption: “The man who had his own room in the Kennedy White House and the beautiful reason why America’s most powerful family never let him go.”

    It’s evocative. It’s intimate. And like many viral historical posts, it contains truth, omission, and projection all tangled together.

    So what is the real story?

     The Historical Core: A Lifelong Companion

    There was a man who remained unusually close to John F. Kennedy from adolescence through the presidency. Their bond began in prep school, deepened through illness, war, politics, and tragedy, and endured long after Kennedy’s death.

    This man was not a political advisor, not Secret Service, not family by blood, yet he moved freely within the Kennedy orbit for decades. He stayed at the White House. He accompanied the family during private moments. He was present in times of grief when cameras were absent.

    That level of access was extraordinary, especially in mid-20th-century America.

    What We Know for Certain

    What is documented, through letters, diaries, and accounts from those who knew the family, is this:

    • The relationship was deeply emotional, loyal, and sustained over a lifetime.

    • He provided companionship during Kennedy’s chronic illness and recovery.

    • He was trusted by the Kennedy parents and siblings alike.

    • After the assassination, he remained closely tied to the family, serving as a living link to their lost son and brother.

    He was, by all reliable accounts, family-just not in the conventional sense.

    Where the Internet Fills in the Gaps

    What the historical record does not conclusively prove is a sexual or romantic relationship.

    Modern audiences often look back and ask questions that earlier generations could not safely ask out loud. In an era when homosexuality was criminalized, careers destroyed, and lives ruined by rumor, silence was not ambiguity-it was survival.

    Some historians argue for a romantic interpretation. Others strongly dispute it. There is no definitive evidence that settles the question beyond doubt.

    What is clear is that applying modern labels retroactively can oversimplify lives lived under vastly different social constraints.

    Why the Kennedys “Never Let Him Go”

    The enduring bond wasn’t necessarily about romance. It was about constancy.

    In a family defined by ambition, public performance, and relentless tragedy, this man represented something rare: someone who knew John before the speeches, before the power, before the myth. Someone who remembered the fragile boy behind the legend.

    After the assassination, he became a keeper of memory, someone who loved John as a person, not as a symbol.

    And that, perhaps, is the “beautiful reason” he remained.

    Why This Story Resonates Today

    This story endures not because it offers scandal, but because it challenges narrow definitions of intimacy.

    Not every profound bond fits neatly into categories. Some relationships are emotional lifelines. Some are chosen family. Some defy the language available to describe them at the time.

    In a world still struggling to understand masculinity, vulnerability, and love between men, this story feels unfinished—because in many ways, it is.

    A Final Thought

    History doesn’t always give us clean answers. Sometimes it gives us human closeness that refuses to be reduced.

    And perhaps the most honest way to honor this story is not to label it, but to recognize the quiet power of loyalty, presence, and love that dares not speak its name, yet speaks through a lifetime.

    For Details visit: https://paw.princeton.edu/article/best-friend

    Meanwhile, here's the AI Overview on the Above Topic 

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    The man who had his own room in the Kennedy White House and the beautiful reason why the most powerful family in America never let him go.

    💚💚This photograph shows young Jack Kennedy with Lem Billings in 1933, the year they met at Choate preparatory school. They were just teenagers, Jack, charismatic but sickly; Lem, tall and awkward but fiercely loyal. Neither could have known they were beginning a friendship that would last until the day a bullet ended it in Dallas.

    From that first meeting, they were inseparable. While other school friendships faded after graduation, theirs only deepened. Through Harvard, through the Navy, through Jack's entry into politics, through his marriage, through his path to the presidency, Lem was there. Always.

    Jackie Kennedy once observed that no one could make her husband laugh the way Lem Billings could. In a life filled with political calculation and constant performance, Lem represented something Jack rarely experienced: unconditional acceptance. With Lem, he didn't have to be Senator Kennedy or President Kennedy. He could just be Jack.

    The Kennedy family didn't just tolerate Lem-they claimed him. He had his own room at the White House. He had his own room at Hyannis Port. He spent holidays with the family, attended intimate gatherings, and was present for both celebrations and tragedies. Joe Kennedy Sr., the demanding patriarch not known for sentimentality, treated Lem like another son.

    What made this extraordinary was something everyone in the family knew but few outside discussed openly: Lem Billings was gay.

    In the 1930s, 40s, 50s, and 60s-when homosexuality was criminalized, medicalized, and socially destroyed lives, the Kennedy family simply didn't care. Or rather, they cared about Lem, not about who he loved. In an era when gay men were arrested, fired, blackmailed, and driven to suicide, Lem found complete acceptance in America's most prominent Catholic family.

    JFK never wavered in his loyalty. During his presidency, when political advisors might have suggested distance, when opponents could have used the friendship as ammunition, Jack kept Lem close. During the long nights when chronic back pain left the President bedridden and heavily medicated, Lem would visit. They'd talk for hours, laugh about their school days, and find comfort in shared memories. Jackie wrote about hearing their laughter echoing through the upstairs halls of the White House, two middle-aged men giggling like the schoolboys they'd once been.

    Some people, then and now, try to read more into their relationship. But those who knew them understood: theirs was a bond of profound platonic love. The kind of friendship where you know someone's entire story, where you've seen them at their worst and best, where you're woven into the fabric of their life so completely that you become family.

    Anyone who's had a true lifelong friend understands this. It's not romantic, it's deeper than that. It's witnessing someone's whole existence and choosing them anyway, again and again, year after year.

    November 22, 1963, shattered Lem's world. When JFK was assassinated, Lem didn't just lose his best friend, he lost his anchor. But the Kennedy family didn't let him drift away. Bobby Kennedy's children, particularly Bobby Jr. and David, became Lem's focus. He mentored them, guided them, tried to be for them what Jack had been for him.

    Jackie remained in Lem's life too, though their relationship was complicated. She recognized how much Jack had needed Lem, even if she'd sometimes felt like an outsider to their private world of inside jokes and shared history.

    But Lem was never the same. Friends watched him spiral. He struggled with addiction, alcohol, then prescription drugs, trying to numb the loss. He threw himself into Bobby Kennedy's children, perhaps trying to save them from the darkness that followed their father's assassination too.

    On May 28, 1981, Lem Billings died of a heart attack at age 65. Many who knew him believed he'd been dying slowly since Dallas. He'd never married, never found a long-term partner. By some accounts, he'd said that Jack Kennedy had occupied such a significant space in his life that there wasn't room for anyone else.

    His story matters for reasons beyond the Kennedy legend. Lem Billings lived openly gay within one of America's most powerful families during an era when that could destroy lives. The Kennedys' acceptance of him, complete, unwavering, familial was radical for its time.

    It's a reminder that love comes in many forms. That friendship can be as profound as any romance. That true loyalty survives politics, scandal, death, and decades. That some families choose love over prejudice, even when the world around them doesn't.

    Lem Billings never got to marry the person he loved because society wouldn't allow it. But he did experience unconditional acceptance from people who mattered to him most. He had a family that claimed him. He had a friend who never let him go.

    And for 30 years, two boys who met at prep school in 1933 proved that the truest friendships don't just last a lifetime, they define it.

    If you've ever had a friend who knew your whole story and loved you anyway, you understand what Jack and Lem had. Share their story.

    https://www.facebook.com/reel/1974764276438067/

    💚Jack and Lem: John F. Kennedy and Lem Billings: The Untold Story of an Extraordinary Friendship is a nonfiction book by journalist David Pitts that tells the story of the lifelong bond between President John F. Kennedy (Jack) and his closest friend Kirk LeMoyne “Lem” Billings,  a relationship that lasted from their teenage years in prep school through Kennedy’s presidency and up to the president’s assassination in 1963. 

    What the Book Is About

    • Friendship from youth through Camelot: The book traces how Jack and Lem met as teenagers at Choate Rosemary Hall in the early 1930s, became inseparable companions, traveled together (including a formative summer in Europe in 1937), and remained close through World War II, Kennedy’s political rise, and his time in the White House. 

    • Primary sources: Pitts based his narrative on hundreds of letters, telegrams, newly available archival materials from the John F. Kennedy Library, and interviews with friends and family of both men, including figures like Ben Bradlee, Gore Vidal, and Ted Sorensen. 

    • Billings’s presence in the White House: Although Billings never held an official government post, Kennedy valued him so highly that he often spent weekends in the White House and even had his own room there, a striking detail given the era’s social norms. 

    • Context of sexuality and homophobia: Lem Billings was gay, though not publicly out in his lifetime. The book explores the complexities of their friendship in a period of widespread homophobia, and how Kennedy’s loyalty to Billings stood out in that context. 

    Relationship vs. Romance

    • Platonic but deep: Pitts portrays the relationship as extraordinary and deeply affectionate but primarily a profound friendship, not a confirmed romantic partnership. Kennedy is reported to have rebuffed at least one advance from Billings early on (“I’m not that kind of boy”), and their bond continued as a close, emotionally intimate friendship. 

    • Debate and speculation: Some writers and later commentators have suggested more intimate interpretations, but Pitts himself does not assert that the two had a sexual relationship; his focus remains on the emotional depth and loyalty of their connection. 

     Reception and Significance

    • Critical response: Reviews noted that the book adds new insight to Kennedy lore by documenting this lesser-known aspect of his life and character, drawing praise from outlets like Publishers Weekly and The Advocate

    • Value to history: Beyond the personal story, the book also sheds light on the social climate of mid-20th-century America, especially regarding LGBTQ issues in elite circles and politics during the Kennedy era. 

    In short: Jack and Lem is a well-researched biography that highlights one of JFK’s most enduring and meaningful relationships. It frames their bond as a remarkable testament to loyalty and affection across decades and social expectations, without asserting definitive romantic involvement but leaving room for readers to understand its emotional complexity.

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