This is Part 3 on the Celebration of Life of David E-my youngest son. During the clean-up of the garage and David E room, Dodie and I found about 32 photos of David E in his younger days and earlier professional life in Maryland. This posting will have 15 photos and Part 4 will contain the remaining photos I will post later.
Our Pet Cat and David E- Internship in Washington DC
With
David E passing, I am now living alone in this big 4BR ranch house and
two hours away from my children. Two of my three living children who
resides in California suggested I moved into a Facility that is within
30 minutes driving time from their residences. My other daughter who is
now residing near me will be moving to Washington DC this July. She got
an SES Federal job in DC that she had always wanted. She just
retired recently from the State of California. I am so happy of her
achievements, goals and ambitions. Congratulations, Ditas.
I am currently doing some searches on Assisted or Independent Living Facilities within 30 minutes driving time from the residences of my two oldest Children. Here's a summary of what I learned. https://www.seniorliving.org/assisted-living/costs/
The size of the assisted living facility you choose, the types of services, and amount of services you require all impact monthly fees. According to Genworth Financial, the average cost of assisted living in 2020 was $4,300 per month. Similarly, according to a National Center for Assisted Living report, the median cost for assisted living in the United States is about $4,300 per month or $51,600 annually. Over 800,000 Americans are residing in assisted living facilities, with just over half of residents being 85+ years old.
These statistics go to show the importance of assisted living in the nation. In a senior living community, you start with upfront costs. Assisted living communities and independent living communities generally have a monthly cost that could range from $2,000 to $8,000, and may make certain hospitality and care services available for an additional monthly fee. If you're looking for assisted living facilities, knowing the average cost of care across the country is a must.
There is a constant debate between assisted living versus living at home among families when it comes to choosing the best option for taking good care of their senior loved ones. Many would argue that healthcare costs, especially for senior living, are increasing rapidly. But that is not entirely true. This public perception has to be corrected by making people aware of the realities of assisted living facilities. Nowadays, many would usually prefer living at home because it is less expensive than assisted living and technology, such as medical alert systems, allow seniors to be safely monitored in their home. It can be in most cases, but the total cost of assisted living is actually significantly less than living at home. Not to mention the daily assistance being provided in assisted living which enhances the quality of life and improves a senior's health and safety.
The secret to getting your money's worth when choosing assisted living facilities is knowing the factors that impact assisted living costs because the price structures of these are dependent on the level of care that a resident requires.
You must know first the location to where you plan for your loved ones to settle. Ideally, you would settle for a place near your family as well. So it is important to know the average cost of care in different states which we have provided below based on Genworth's 2020 Cost of Care Survey.
You'll also need to consider the rent, utility, maintenance, meal, and personal care costs. Independent living or living at home usually would focus on rent or mortgage which usually results in overlooking the other necessities for senior care. In assisted living, the expenses cover the necessary things to provide quality care. If you take a look at it, assisted living is in its essence, financially equal to living at home because the level of care assisted living facilities provide is also what families should provide for seniors even living at home. The only difference now is a question of where our seniors will be provided with daily activities and entertainment to enhance their quality of life.
Living at home limits discovering opportunities for social interactions and daily activities. This is because entertainment is usually being cut back to save money. This is usually an unfortunate reality in senior living at home. There is an emphasis on this particular aspect because regular social activities are significant for seniors to stay fit and sharp. This can create the same atmosphere as when they have not retired yet and may provide the difference between surviving and thriving.
If your main concern is affordability or your budget, Genworth's Cost of Care Survey outlines the average daily, monthly, and annual costs of a private one-unit in an assisted living community in each state. This can serve as a good guide of what you can expect to spend on an assisted living facility in your state.
With so many types of senior living available, it can be difficult to understand which community type is the best fit for you or your loved one. We’ve made the decision easier by identifying some of the common qualities of independent living residents. Some of the people who should consider independent living include:
This posting is a continuation of David III Celebration of Life via
photographs. Part 1 was posted a couple of days ago. Rest in Peace,
David E. We missed you!!
David loved his wooden rooster and horse and other animals collection from the Philippines.
In
my previous tribute to David E, I mentioned the White House Tours and
Parties we attended as the immediate relatives of an OMB employee. I
also forgot to mentioned that David E had attended the 106th Session of
the House of Congress in 2000. Here's a photo of his Parking Permit as
evidence. He kept it in his jewelry box together with Seiko and other
jewelry collections. Not too many of us will have a chance to attend a
US Congressional Session in our lives. Another event in David E life not
mentioned at the last week Zoom Memorial was his six months aboard the SS Abraham Lincoln Naval Carrier. He
was one of three civilians on contract by the US Navy in charge of the
maintenance of the communication and computer system of the Battleship
Carrier. The carrier traveled all over the world with stopover in the
Middle East, Singapore, and Pert, Australia. He was on the ship for 6
months and was burnt out after that.
This is David E favorite antique leather foot stool-he purchased from Antique Stores in our area.
Dodie and I rented a big Dump truck to discard all of his other junk accumulations and non- valuable properties from his room and from the Garage.
David had more than 100 caps in his collection. The one below is from the SS Abraham Lincoln Battle Carrier.
This one is his trout cap that I am modeling today. You wear this if you want to get attention.
Just to remind everyone of today's Zoom Meeting for David E. Link Below
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Here are more photos of David and with Family
David E at Ian's Wedding Reception, November, 2021
David E( First from the Right) with Siblings and Nieces, 2017
David E during our 50th Wedding Anniversary, Boac, Marinduque 2017
Last Thursday ( March 17), David E
Katague III passed so suddenly, I am still numbed with grief. I posted
in my blog the other day, what exactly happened. I received numerous
messages of condolences from relatives and friends. Again I thank you
for your messages and phone calls from the bottom of my heart. In
today's posting, I am sharing some photos to celebrate David's life. May
He Rest in Peace, Amen. A memorial service for David E via Zoom is
scheduled for March 24, at 11AM. Details is posted on my FB page today
on bottom of this page.
"From My Previous Postings: When we are in Marinduque, our second son David E. takes
care of the yard, swimming pool and also the house here in Northern
California. David is single and currently works for the Federal
Government (TSA) in Sacramento. He has a Bachelor of Science degree in
Agricultural Economics from UC Davis and a Masters of Science degree in
Public Management and Policy with concentration on Information Systems
from Carnegie Mellon University. He used to work for the Office of
Management and Budget(OMB) in Washington DC during the Clinton and Gore
Administration.
During the time of his employment with OMB we received annual Christmas
cards from the White House as well as special invitations to special
events such as the Easter Egg Hunting in the lawn of the White House and
Parties for OMB employees. David E is learning how to speak Tagalog.
During our 50th wedding anniversary party in 2007, he addressed the
guests in Tagalog and made a good impression. His Tagalog is improving
but still has the American accent. Macrine(RIP) and I are proud of his desire
to learn the language of his ancestry. Without David's help, we will
never be able to enjoy staying in our island paradise in the Philippines
for as long as we desire".
From My Blogs: Several years ago, Macrine(RIP), David III and I spent one week of vacation
(time share-exchange) in the beautiful island of Maui, Hawaii. We have
scheduled one day of our week vacation for the popular, scenic and
breathtaking drive- the Road to Hana. However, when I learned
that the are numerous narrow and winding roads and bridges along the
Hana Highway and because I am prone to motion sickness (in the car), we
decided not to do it.
David during Tiny Gregorio, MD(my niece) visit in Marinduque, 1998
David
(first from the Right-Front Row) during the Rene and Genny Nieva Family
Reunion in their Condo in Eastwood, Makati in the Philippines, 2007
David Being Crowned during the Putong Ceremony in Boac, 2002
David showing one of the 4 Lechons Prepared during our 50th Wedding Anniversary, Boac, Marinduque, 2007 ( Back Balcony of the Main House)
David with Me and First Cousin Alix during my 85th Birthday Party, Fair Oaks, Ca
David and I with First Cousin Elaine King during my 82nd Birthday Party, Fair Oaks, CA
David and I with First Cousin Dave E from Sydney,Australia visit here in California
David(
with yellow cap) participated in the medical mission data collection in
2001(Marinduque). Lito Quiazon is standing with blue cap managing high
school students and David helping (using the computer) with the data
assessments.
If you have any pictures of David please send it to me via FB so I could post it in this photo memories of him.
Meanwhile, enjoy these photos from my garden this week
Here's David helping her Mom do her swimming therapy at our pool.
https://www.facebook.com/david.b.katague/videos/10210731955991389/
Final Note: Of my 4 children, David was the only one who had a very closed connection Marinduque. He was the only one who participated with MI, inc medical mission to the province. He was my only child who learned Tagalog and was interested in retiring to Chateau Du Mer in Marinduque. I love you and I really missed you today. May you rest in Peace and see your Mom in Heaven!
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