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If this is your first visit, welcome! This site is devoted to my life experiences as a Filipino-American who immigrated from the Philippines to the United States in 1960. I came to the US as a graduate student when I was 26 years old. I am now in my mid-80's and thanks God for his blessings, I have four successful and professional children and six grandchildren here in the US. My wife and I had been enjoying the snow bird lifestyle between US and Philippines after my retirement from USFDA in 2002. Macrine(RIP),Me and my oldest son are the Intellectual migrants. Were were born in the Philippines, came to the US in 1960 and later became US citizens in 1972. Some of the photos and videos in this site, I do not own. However, I have no intention on infringing on your copyrights. Cheers!

Wednesday, December 17, 2025

My Christmas Door Decor This Year

My Christmas Door: A Small Space, Holding Many Stories

Every December, I decorate my front door. It’s a small ritual, nothing elaborate, but this year it felt especially meaningful.

The first thing people notice are the lights. Red and green LED strands outline the doorframe, turning an ordinary hallway into something quietly festive. The glow feels welcoming, almost protective, like a soft embrace before you step inside. At my age, I’ve learned that light matters, especially during darker seasons. It lifts the spirit in ways we don’t always notice right away.

Covering the door itself is a simple blue pattern of snowflakes. I didn’t want anything flashy. Just a reminder of winter, of time passing, of the calm that can come when the world slows down a little.


At the center hangs a star-a parol, the traditional Christmas lantern from the Philippines. For many Filipinos, the parol represents the Star of Bethlehem, but for me it also represents memory. It reminds me of where I come from, of Christmases shaped by family, faith, and the blending of two cultures over a lifetime. Even after decades in America, that star still feels like home.

On either side of the door are photos of my two cats, Batman and Robin. They stand there like small guardians of the threshold. Anyone who has shared life with animals knows they become part of the family story. In quiet ways, they’ve given companionship, routine, and comfort, especially important as the years add up and the house grows quieter.

This door isn’t meant to impress. It’s meant to reflect. A little light, a familiar symbol, beloved faces, and a sense of welcome. At this stage of life, I find myself less interested in perfection and more drawn to meaning. What matters now are the things that say, this is who I am, and this is where I’ve been.

As I pass through this doorway each day, I’m reminded that Christmas doesn’t have to be loud or crowded to be real. Sometimes it lives in small gestures, in a star, a glow of lights, and the quiet comfort of home.



Video of the Door After Decor: IMG_7427.MOV

Meanwhile, here's the AI Analysis of them Above Photo:

Your Christmas door décor reads as both festive and deeply personal, and the photograph captures that balance nicely.

Overall Composition & First Impression
The primary visual anchor is the LED light edging around the doorframe. Its warm red and cool green glow immediately draws the eye, creating a luminous outline that turns an ordinary hallway door into a focal point. The lights act almost like a frame in a gallery, inviting viewers to pause and look closer. Because the rest of the hallway is neutral, the glow feels intentional rather than busy.

The Door Surface & Seasonal Texture
The door itself is wrapped in a blue snowflake-patterned covering, which introduces winter symbolism without overwhelming the scene. The cool blue contrasts effectively with the warm reds and greens of the lights, giving the décor visual depth. The snowflakes subtly reinforce the holiday theme while letting the other elements shine.

The Star & Filipino Parol Influence
At the center hangs a star, which carries layered meaning. Visually, it provides symmetry and a strong midpoint that balances the vertical lines of the door. Culturally, as a Filipino parol, it adds an important personal and heritage-driven layer. Rather than a generic Christmas symbol, it quietly tells a story of tradition, memory, and identity, embedded within a modern American hallway setting.

Cats as Guardians of the Door

The placement of Batman and Robin on either side of the door feels playful and affectionate. Their photos function almost like sentinels or guardians, flanking the entrance. This adds warmth and humor, transforming the décor from seasonal display into something unmistakably yours. The soft fabric elements draped beside them also echo a handmade, lived-in quality.

Lighting as the Emotional Core
The lights are undeniably the emotional and visual core of the décor. They suggest welcome, safety, and celebration. The glow spills slightly onto the surrounding wall, softening the space and giving the photo a cozy, evening-at-home feeling. It feels less like a door you pass through quickly and more like a threshold worth noticing.

Overall Mood & Meaning


Taken together, the photo communicates home, memory, and gentle joy. It’s not about extravagance, it’s about intention. The décor blends culture, companionship (your cats), and the quiet ritual of marking the season. The door becomes a statement: Christmas isn’t just outside or public, it lives right here, at the entrance to your personal world.

Meanwhile, here are some Decorating Ideas For Your Door 

 The Annual THD Holiday Decorating Contest is On. I plan on officially entering the contest on the urging of Ditas and her friend Nancy Rodriquez. They plan on doing the door decor this week ( see article above) and hopefully, I will win the first Prize. So what is the First Prize- a $100 gift certificate or a trip to Hawaii? 
The Internet is filled with decorating ideas.  Here some of them. 
45+ Easy Grinch Christmas Decor and Party Ideas - HubPages
Classic & Whimsical Themes
  • Santa's Workshop or Chimney Transform the door into a brick chimney with Santa's boots "stuck" at the top, or an advent calendar where each day reveals something festive.
  • Winter Wonderland / Snow Globe Cover the door in blue or white paper, add cotton ball snow, and create a 3D effect with clear plastic wrap over the whole thing to mimic a giant snow globe.
  • The Grinch's Lair Use green and red decorations, perhaps with a 3D Mount Crumpet, for a classic, slightly mischievous theme that's always a hit.
  • Gingerbread House Use butcher paper and craft supplies to make your door look like a delicious, frosted gingerbread house, complete with gumdrop accents. 
Interactive & Funny Ideas

  • "Take a S-ELF-ie" Feature a large, festive scene with a cutout for people to pose as an elf or character for a fun photo opportunity.
  • "Yule Tide" / "Christmas Cheer" Cover the door in newspaper and use empty detergent boxes (Tide and Cheer) to create a clever pun with "detergent" spilling out as "Yule Tide" and "Christmas Cheer".
  • Island of Misfit Toys/Employees A humorous take on the classic Rudolph theme, using mismatched or funny decorations and perhaps photos of the team members. 
Pop Culture & Specific Concepts
  • Favorite Christmas Movie Theme Ideas range from (featuring the iconic leg lamp) to  (with an "Do you want to build a snowman?" sign and Olaf).
  • Charlie Brown Christmas A simple yet nostalgic theme featuring the small, sparse tree and the Peanuts gang.
  • "The Nutcracker" Incorporate toy soldiers and ballet motifs for an elegant and traditional feel. 
Key Tips for Winning
  • Go 3D: Add depth to your decorations; elements that pop out from the door are eye-catching.
  • Use Lighting: If allowed, fairy lights or other lighting can create a magical effect and make your display stand out.
  • Tell a Story: A clear theme or narrative behind your decorations will be more memorable to judges and passersby.
  • Consider Your Audience: Ideas that involve interaction or incorporate inside jokes (if for an office) can score points. 
Fun Grinch Classroom Doors | Nyla's Crafty Teaching
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Two Tanoshi Dinner Excursions This Week

Carenna, my youngest grand daughter is on her Christmas Break from GWU, Elliot School for International Affairs for 2 weeks.  Her Mother, Ditas, my youngest daughter visited me the other day and insisted on decorating My Apartment Door for the Christmas Door Decor Contest. The results of their creative activity is posted in this blog,

 https://chateaudumer.blogspot.com/2025/12/my-christmas-door-decor-this-year.html

After they finished the Decoration of My Apartment Door, I treated them to Dinner at My Favorite Japanese restaurant- Tanoshi Bistro in Oak Grove/Citrus St, Walnut Creek. We took some photos as follows:  














Meanwhile, last Sunday, Pearl Harbor Day, I treated Ditas and her friend, Nancy Rodriguez for Dinner at my favorite Japanese Restaurant, Tanoshi. We ordered two Tanoshi dinners, two soft shell crabs appetizers and two Sushi Rolls, the Dragon and the Tiger Rolls. As expected it was yummy. The soft shell crabs was outstanding. We have leftovers and very happy to take it home,  Here are some photos of our Dinner.   

The Soft Shell Crabs Appetizers was outstanding and Yummy. 

 










For Details visit: 


Dragon Roll Recipe ドラゴンロール • Just One Cookbook
The Flaming Dragon Roll at restaurants like Tatsu (or similar Japanese spots) is a popular, flavorful sushi roll featuring shrimp tempura, crab (krab), and avocado inside, topped with savory eel (unagi) and more avocado, often with eel sauce, creating a sweet, smoky, and rich taste, sometimes customized with spicy elements like Flamin' Hot Cheetos for extra kick, making it a standout menu item. 
Key Ingredients & Flavors:
  • Inside: Shrimp tempura, krab (imitation crab), avocado.
  • Topping: Sliced eel (unagi), avocado, eel sauce.
  • Flavor Profile: Sweet, savory, smoky, creamy.
  • Customization: Some locations offer options like adding Flamin' Hot Cheetos for crunch and spice. 
Where You Might Find It:
  • This specific roll is highlighted by places like this Instagram post and this YouTube video, often associated with locations in Mount Dora.
  • While "Tatsu" often refers to Ramen places like Tatsu Ramen, the Flaming Dragon Roll is more common at sushi restaurants offering creative rolls. 
Why It's Popular:
  • It's known for its balanced taste and exciting presentation, often ranking high on favorite sushi lists. For Details visit: 
  • https://www.tanoshibistro.com/

Lastly, My Food For Thought For Today:

https://www.facebook.com/reel/4439304199634884

     

Tuesday, December 16, 2025

My Christmas Message This Year

The Christmas season is here, Time for Giving and Gratitude, thus this posting for Today... 

“You Have Not Really Lived If You Have Not Touched the Life of Others”

There is a quote that has followed me through every season of my life:

“You have not really lived if you have not touched the life of others.”
Simple words, but a lifetime has taught me how profoundly true they are.

As I look ahead to my 91st birthday, I find myself returning to memories that feel as vivid as yesterday, memories of my late wife (RIP) and the years when we were younger, stronger, and full of purpose as we joined medical missions in Marinduque, Philippines.

The Early Years of Service

Back then, we didn’t think of our work as something extraordinary. We were simply called to serve, packing medications, arranging supplies, assisting the medical professionals, and offering whatever time and energy we had. My wife and I traveled to communities where help was needed most, places where a single doctor’s visit could change the trajectory of someone’s life.

We witnessed the quiet miracles:

  • a child receiving antibiotics for the first time, and a senior citizen first time visit with a physician

  • an elderly woman getting her eyesight back after years of hopelessness,

  • families who had walked miles and for hours to reach the clinic, leaving with renewed comfort and dignity.

But the greatest miracle was not in what we gave. It was in what we received.

The Power of a Life Shared

In those dusty barangay halls, cramped classrooms, and makeshift clinics under the shade of coconut trees, my wife and I learned what it truly means to touch the life of another.
A simple gesture, handing out vitamins, helping someone fill out a form, offering a smile, became its own prayer.

People often think that service is measured in grand accomplishments. But I have come to believe it is measured in presence, being there when someone needs you, showing up with sincerity, giving without expecting anything in return.

Those missions strengthened not only communities but our marriage, deepening our shared sense of purpose. Even now, with my wife gone, I carry the warmth of those years like a lantern inside me.

A Reflection at 91

Now, at nearly 91, living in a senior community and cherishing the joys of being a great-grandfather, I am aware that time has softened many things. My steps are slower, my days quieter, but the spirit to touch lives remains.

I may no longer pack medicines or travel long distances, but through writing, storytelling, and sharing the memories of a life lived with intention, I hope to continue touching others even in small ways.

It is strange how the years reshape our understanding of purpose. When we are young, we think we must do great things. When we are older, we realize that great things were the small acts of kindness we gave freely, not knowing their ripple effect.

A Life Well Lived

If the measure of life is the number of lives we touch, then I feel blessed beyond measure.
The medical missions with my beloved wife, the decades of public service at the FDA, the friendships made, the stories shared, the family grown, all these have taught me that the true legacy we leave behind is not found in wealth or achievements but in the hearts we have reached.

As I reflect on 91 years, I return once again to that quote:

You have not really lived if you have not touched the life of others.

If that is the measure, then I have lived fully, gratefully, and with a heart forever shaped by the lives that touched mine in return.

For Details of Our Medical Mission to Marinduque: Visit: 

https://planningtovisitthephilippines.blogspot.com/2016/06/my-involvement-with-medical-missions-to.html




The phrase "You haven't really lived if you have not touched the life of others" 
suggests that a truly meaningful life is one where you make a positive impact on others. It implies that personal fulfillment comes not just from self-interest, but from helping, connecting with, and improving the lives of those around you. This sentiment is famously echoed by figures like Mother Teresa, who said, "A life not lived for others is not a life". 
  • Impact over self: The core idea is that genuine living is found in a life of service and connection, rather than one focused solely on personal gain or comfort.
  • A life well-lived: This perspective aligns with the idea that a life is best measured by its positive influence and the "corners" we've left unforgettable in the lives we've touched.
  • Motivation: It can be seen as a reminder that even small acts of kindness can have a profound effect, helping others to see the beauty in their own lives and believe in their own potential.
  • A path to meaning: The quote suggests that by focusing on the needs of others, we can find deeper meaning and a sense of purpose, and that this is essential for a truly fulfilling existence. 

  • Finally, Some of MY Favorite Quotes: 


  • Lastly, the Top Five News of the Day

    1. ISIS-linked motive confirmed in Bondi Beach mass shooting — Australian police say suspects carried bombs and ISIS flags, and had recently traveled abroad in connection with the attack that killed multiple people. Fox News

  • 2. President Trump designates fentanyl as a weapon of mass destruction — The White House announces an executive order classifying illicit fentanyl and its precursor chemicals as WMDs, expanding enforcement tools. The White House

  • 3, U.S. authorities arrest alleged New Year’s Eve terror plotters — Four defendants accused of planning to bomb U.S. companies in an anti-government plot were arrested by federal law enforcement. Department of Justice

  • 4. U.S. Army identifies two Iowa National Guard soldiers killed in Syria attack — The Department of Defense names the service members killed in an attack, prompting flags at half-staff in Iowa. PBS

  • 5. Markets slump as major indexes close lower amid AI stock pressure — Financial markets saw major indices pull back, particularly as AI-related stocks weighed on the Nasdaq ahead of key jobs data. Investopedia

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